80% of New Year's resolutions fail by February.
The problem isn't a lack of willpower - it's understanding how your brain & body are wired for change.
Most resolutions fail because they don't align with how our brains work.
Vague Goals confuse your brain.
Unrealistic expectations lead to overwhelm.
All-or-nothing thinking sets you up for failure.
To succeed, you need to work with your biology, not against it.
Your brain loves efficiency - which means it resists change.
Habits are wired into the basal ganglia, the brain's autopilot system.
When you try to change too much at once, the prefrontal cortex (the decision-making part of your brain) gets overwhelmed.
Without quick wins or reinforcement, your brain defaults to old patterns.
The solution is to leverage neuroplasticity - your brain's ability to rewire itself.
Set SMART Goals:
Goals need to be brain-friendly.
Instead of vague resolutions, use the SMART framework:
Specific: Be clear about what you want to achieve.
Measurable: Quantify progress (eg steps, workouts, meals prepped).
Achievable: Start with small, manageable changes.
Relevant: Align with your deeper "Why".
Time-bound: Add a deadline to create urgency.
Example: Instead of "I'll get healthy", say "I'll walk for 20 minutes, 3 times a week by February".
Focus on systems:
Goals are the destination; systems are the path. Your body & mind thrive on routine.
Goal: Lose 5kgs.
System: Plan 5 balanced meals weekly, schedule workouts, & track progress daily.
Focus on creating habits that feel effortless over time - like meal prepping or morning meditation.
Reward the brain:
Your brain runs on dopamine, the "feel good" neurotransmitter.
Set small, achievable milestones to trigger dopamine release.
Celebrate every win - like hitting your first week of consistent workouts.
Avoid punishing slip-ups. Instead, refocus on what's next.
This keeps your brain engaged & motivated for the long haul.
Build accountability:
You're more likely to succeed when someone's watching.
Share your goals with a friend, health coach or join a supportive community.
Use tools like habit trackers or apps to visually monitor your progress.
Check in weekly to reflect on wins & adjust for challenges.
When others are involved, you strengthen the neural pathways that reinforce positive change.
Understand your "Why".
Research shows that connecting your goals to a deeper purpose improves success.
Do you want to feel energised to play with your kids?
Avoid chronic disease?
Show up as your best self for work & relationships?
Your "Why" anchors you when your motivations fades.
Be in the 20% that Succeed!
This year, set goals that stick by working with your brain & biology.
Start small.
Celebrate progress.
Focus on systems over perfection.
Dr Mark Hyman